The next aspect I’d like to address is street harassment. Whistles, comments about physical appearance, the “you look great, baby” or the “my love, you’re so beautiful” are all part of street interactions. In Cuba, it’s understood as something cultural, normalized, and minimized, even though it shouldn’t be that way. Life in Cuba is public, the street is the main space for socializing, and close contact is the norm. Many European women aren’t used to unsolicited interaction, and it can generate discomfort, frustration, anger, or fear.
How can we handle it?
First, I would say ignore it, walk with your gaze fixed straight ahead, and avoid eye contact. However, sometimes anger or frustration makes you choke up and you need to say or do something. Cuban women have explained to us that sometimes we can respond, preferably with a joke or another lighthearted comment, but setting boundaries: “Leave me alone,” “Have you seen yourself?”
Although, in my experience, I haven’t put this into practice. I’ve chosen to ignore it and go on my way. Finally, I should mention that it’s not worth reacting aggressively, as the situation could escalate and turn violent.
Author: Alba Martínez – Volunteer at Firas House
